I'm sure they were able to have sex in other ways that may not have included vaginal penetration. I am happy for them if they are happy. I am so sick of this being an issue. Is it not ok to call a woman a bitch if it is from one bitch to another? I think as women we are just constantly putting pressure on each other to "take the next step," whatever that step may be. I am not saying that there isn't room to discuss various ways of having sex but I do think that it is silencing to ignore what their specific desires were. Sign up for the Weekly Reader:. But, there still is a weirdness, like they are expecting me to turn into that woman. Weight aside, have some damn class.