If you went in for the first kiss, maybe you think it's his turn to initiate the next kiss. Your big goal is to get him to come back for seconds. Remember not kissing them yet doesn't mean the end of the relationship or world it just means you are moving faster than they are. Make sure that you both are ready for the kiss. More confidence means that there's a bigger chance the boy comes back to kiss you again. He should try to kiss you again. Make sure you have a fresh breath. Try to find a place that's public, but still intimate, for you to share your first kiss. What if all my friends are pressuring my boyfriend and I to kiss, but it seems that he's not comfortable?