Actually it is the nicest thing you can do if they are submissive. Dominating someone in bed does not mean being mean to them. A dom prefers to be dominant during sex. Sexual dominance needn't accompany other forms of dominance. In other words, being submissive doesn't make you a pansy. Being submissive is not worse than being dominant. Sexual preference in general is independent of whether one is a dom or a sub. A sub prefers to submit, i. To desire inequality in the bedroom has nothing to do either way with demanding social, political or economic inequities.