Comments Facebook Comments. This all begs the question, how can we, as bi men, find someone who wants to date us? The study also explored if bi folks are perceived as being more masculine or more feminine than their straight counterparts. In fact, the woman I went on three dates with was the last straight person I dated, and that was over three years ago. First, the results indicated that straight women perceive bi men as being less romantically and sexually attractive than straight men. Everything had been going well… or so I thought. Lastly, bi men were perceived as being significantly more feminine than straight men. More specifically, profiles would have the same picture, bio, age, etc. So, if you find yourself continuously struggling while dating straight and gay folks, the answer is get out there and find yourself another bi person!