There's safety, comfort, and the feeling that you're going home again. This article was originally published on Jun 19, It is, in some ways, like tying up loose ends, emphasizing that even if you still have feelings for each other, you were right to part ways. Bad-bad, not good-bad — like, so bad that you can kiss any hope of getting over your ex goodbye if you sleep with them. When relationships comes to an end, it's easy to romanticize your former partner. Your heart is worth more than a roll in the hay, especially if it's someone you're unable to get over.