Learn things about your princess This is the most important step of your meeting. After your question, she answers, and you qualify her, in other words, YOU reward her for her correct answer. In the second question, YOU give her the opportunity to express herself not the fact that I said YOU, YOU give her the chance, YOU are the prize, you lead the conversation, you are the alpha male she will talk and talk, women love talking!! When she asks you what you do for a living, instead of giving a detailed answer, change the direction of the question and avoid it:. Use questions that give the opportunity to your loved one to explore a wave of emotions and strong sensations. So you have a simple tool, but very effective. That would be too bad… So you have a simple tool, but very effective. Qualify her: tell her your interest.